Healthy relationships are about consent and respect. Rape has nothing to do with love, passion or sex between two partners.
Most victims are raped by someone they already know; a friend, partner, co-worker, boy/girlfriend, or even a spouse. This can be confusing at times, because you may already have some type of relationship with the person that assaulted you.
If you are unsure what to do call the Minnesota Day One Crisis Hotline, 1.866.223.1111.There are advocates available in your area that can help you find local resources and can support you in your process, whatever it may be (i.e. reporting, seeking medical attention, talking with an advocate, or just sharing your story).